Every first few days of the month are Expenditure

It is already known that I have a job and every first few days of the month, I will treat my grandmother and mum a big beast. It can be any place and any type of food (of course only edible) However, most of the time, my mum will want to have chinese food because it is more filling and more choices.


Normally, the location will be at the shopping center where we can go for a shopping spree after the meal. It can be breakfast, lunch or dinner. But most of the time, it is lunch.


Well, since tomorrow will be the day, let's just have a small spoiler: Chinese food at Nex Shopping Mall. 


See ya!

Every Thursday is a Reunion

Every thursday of the week, my mum will again accompany my grandmother but during the evening, she will bring her back. Then my grandmother will then stay with us till Tuesday morning or later, my mum will bring her down until Thursday. This whole cycle will never end unless my auntie instructs my grandmother to stay with us.


There's one incident where my auntie fall sick and she told my mother not to bring grandmother down. The reason is that my auntie will not be able to take care of grandmother due to her body condition which is not long ago. Thus, those two days, my grandmother stayed with us until next week.


Actually, my grandmother is moving after half of each week but my auntie does not want grandmother to wake up early too many days. Therefore, my grandmother will go down on Tuesday and comes back on Thursday night.


The reason for my grandmother to wake up early because no one will be at home to take care of her when my auntie goes out for work. For my mum, she will reach latest 8-9am thus my grandmother will then have to wait at the coffee shop for my mum till she comes.

Difference between this blog and my main: Xanga

Hello everybody,

it's Min Yi again! I guess I don't need an introduction for this right? Then, I will just go straight to the point.

For my main blog Xanga, the contents are basically events which is worth to note. However, I will write them as a monthly note, well, if I have the time, I may also blog them immediately.

As for this MumHouse journey, it's kind of daily life involves around me, my mum and my grandmother. Sometimes, if my grandmother not being mentioned, it's just that this blog is more suitable for that post or vice versa.

Soshite, arigato for reading this and jana! 

Porridge day, a must for every week

Right now, my grandmother will eat share of the porridge either prepared by my mum or me. Well, for most of the time, it the person who cooks it is me then my grandmother and mum have already gone out for their meals. Because I wake up late.


Perhaps you want to know about the history of why "Weekly porridge" exists. Hmm, I actually I have also forgotten why is the initial reason but I did know that in the past, my mum cooks different kind of porridge, there are rainbow porridge, fish porridge, pork porridge and now involved into "Cabbage & Pork" porridge.


I supposed the weekly porridge happens during Polytechnic? Every week Sunday or Saturday or even weekdays due to some events, porridge will be cook. Normally will have a pot ready from morning till night. Here's the ingredients.


- 2 cups and a half if morning prepares, 2 cups starts from afternoon. 1 and a cup from 3pm onwards.
-One cabbage, depends on the timing, I will choose the size.
-$2 worth of mince pork, how many grams, please ask the butcher.
-water, depends on timing, 1/2 to 2/3 of the pot 
-salt, seasoning, sesame oil, light soya sauce & pepper


Cooking steps:


1. Get the rice and rinse with water.Fill the pot with water and turn on the fire. Wait for it to boil.
2. Put the mince pork into the bowl and stir it with one spoon of light soya sauce and sesame oil. Put a bit of water to make it soften.
3. Slice the cabbage and tear it piece of piece. Throw away the most inner and hardest part of the vege. For harder parts, separate them from the softer pieces.
4. When the water boils, put mince meat into the pot and stir it. Make sure the rice does not stick onto the pot surface.
5. Put the hard pieces of the cabbage in and stir again.
6. Put in the soft vege as well.
7. Add in salt, seasoning, a bit of sesame oil and pepper.
8. Stir and wait for the food to cook until the colour of the vege turns lighter.
9. Turn off the fire and wait for few minutes before serving the food.


Notes:
-Vegetables is to be wash which I didn't mention in the steps.
-From my experience, before I prepare finish the vegetables, the water already boils thus stop and stir the food inside.


Well, this is how easy and convenient to cook breakfast, lunch and dinner or even supper for me. I have it once every week, because the portion is large, I don't cook it twice per week. However, when a week past, I will miss the taste of it again.


Thanks for reading! 

AhmaHouse Journey ended but new MumHouse open???

Hiya hiya hiya hiya, yohohohohoho, dereshishishishi, hahahahah

Okay, enough of the stupid laughing introduction. I guess you people are wondering what does the title means, well, it means I stop going to ahma house and stay there but now it's about our house where my grandmother stays here periodically!

It happens at least half of each week where my grandmother will stay at our house. Then at one particular day, my mum will accompany my grandmother to her own house and stay there to take care of her still evening. For your information, previous era of "Ahma House" is actually my auntie house but I always refer it as grandma's house. However, this time round, the house is really belongs to my grandmother. Long long time ago, she rented that place together with another auntie and the auntie live there until one day, the auntie decided to go back to Malaysia thus sold the house to my grandma. Therefore, my auntie move in there and rented her original house which is quite nearby.

Explanation of new series stops here, now is to say about some feelings of mine regarding to just now which I read again the blog. At first, I wanted to edit my game blog to make it better and perhaps get a new start because the background is really too plain. However, I click on this blog instead and started rewinding what happened when I was in Polytechnic. Sometimes, I did say that funny moments are short and it builds on top of my miserable life but now that I read, real happy times did occur when I didn't think of that particular person.

I remembered I read it when Weijin came after me and started those irritating sounds and I told him that shiny sentence which later become a stupid joke...Perhaps that's the time where Weijin stopped talking to me...well, I don't remember that much anymore.

And the time where Ivor brought her girlfriend and introduce to us, Xiao Cui said something stupid again, lols...that part.

I didn't manage to read the whole blog because I think I needed to update this website about my current life. I had a lot of blogs which I don't remember what are the sites. I only knew I had two of these as of current which are part of the things I will do, specific content blogging and game blog. Xanga is the one that updates all my life but I hardly update frequently, most of the events are already over by weeks (some by month...) so it become a monthly blog instead. Hotmail space as the story blog which I created when I was in secondary, well, the grammer and vocabulary sucks, please don't search and comment on that. Storywrite, officially my story blog/website but I left it for quite long because I hook on to anime again.

Speaking of anime, though it isn't related in this blog, it's part of my life. The biggest portion which I am watching now is One Piece. Oh my god, awesome and touching aren't the only words to describe it, only the people who really watched it will know, even it's just few minutes of it. Nami, Robin, Franky, Chopper, Brook, even Zoro and Sanji's past are worth to see but people mentioned in front (no sequence and ranking) lead a more miserable life before they became the Straw Hats. For Luffy, besides extraordinary family and childhood, I have nothing more to comment.

For storywriting, as I say, I leaving it now because I am hooking on something else, like the one above.

For games, not much also, same reason for that. However, I gave up on offline games but rewinding some of the browser games such as Pet Forest, a.k.a Canaan Online but I failed. More focus on flash games, sites like Kongregate and recently, Newgrounds and Google games.

For love, as usual, single.

For Work/Study, as you can see, I am now doing the first one, I have forfeit the second because: no money, no time, no brain, no social skills (why the hell do studying need social skills??) I am now working as admin assistant in the head office of a gift shop, okay. It's MT, well, if you want to refer it as Mother Tongue then it's up to you. But remember, I am no longer a student and I don't intend to be one.

Here's the little background of me working in MT, admin assistant, assists in doing PO and GR, sometimes doing price change and other types of memo. Help in picking up calls and in warehouse which is rarely. Now in the time to participate in meetings and doing goods launch. Going to learn about shipping by air and corporate customer but don't really have to chance to do it.

I got the job since 7th of July 2011, work for half a year because now is 26 February 2012 and I already gotten the title "work for half a year" since 7th January 2012 which I am entitled for my bonus!!!

Well, perhaps you want to ask me whether I gotten any mature or anything. Answer is no and yes, No for someone telling me to grow up and said that I know nothing about the society. (Blood boils -_-) Yes because I feel that I did change a bit, only a bit. Nothing about size, if you wonder. Just the brain and spirit but most of the time, I am still a stupid kid. (Just now thought of some other people telling me off through phone and air...feeling not very good. Can't just let if pass by...) Alright, since when I a bit older, I may re-wind again here, I post the shit out then.

There is one colleague who known to me as tiger/tyranny. Why? Because she's quite bad tempered and her words are like poison ice knife, giving people pain and shock. Then in the meeting, she cried. She say that nobody knows that she is very busy and working very late almost everyday when others had already off work. Her name is Katherine, she suggested to make flowers for Valentine's day and Angela is appointed to be the flower girl but Katherine promise to arrange people to help and in the end, Angela is the only one doing until Priscilla which is another colleague asks her and realize she cannot cope. Thus, start asking people to help out.(P.S. Before the meeting, Angela already decided to quit. Having that meeting because the bosses realize the problems between work mates and wanted to solve the problem call teamwork) Then, one day on the facebook, I found that post from Angela.

Here's the particular sentence.

"Everyday scold people and in front of bosses, act like a mouse. Please lor, Micky mouse is 10000000000 times cuter than you!"

Angela, before you even told me to grow up, is your sentence shows that you are mature?

Then, the incident happens. I don't know if Katherine cried is true of her feelings or something else but she reminds of my past.

During Polytechnic, I also scold Xiao Cui in front of everybody, words aren't ice but direct words and shouting. I do regret because I still need that person in the end. The main point is, to me, I am stressing everyday, piles of homework and high level of difficulty. Not only my part, I also have to be responsible for her portion. Always say that I can teach her but please, the lessons and practical in the beginning is already okay to catch up. Even though her English is not good, really not good, okay okay, since I admit that and I stop it. The real reason which I remembered because she ruins my work. One click of hers make the program stop working. At that moment, I thought my work is gone. (Luckily, it's back, working fine after a while) But I shout at her. To others, their opinion of me becomes a tiger/Tyranny but they never knew that I am the one who doing all those shit. How could she and I admit that I am the only person who do everything in that particular group?? Even her report is also mine. Limited timing, level of difficulty and almost every subject is mine, I am doing double job, who knows my misery? Then during the private discussion with the teacher, I cried easily because that damn teacher will just only tell me to search google for answers. I told him I tried but I really can't. So if the same group of people saw that, am I both nuts and fake? Acting mad person in front of everybody and become a pitiful worm in front of the teacher?

Angela, if one day you search the google or whatever, you happen to come across this site, I just want to tell you, not that I am siding the bosses or Katherine, just that what I see during the meeting reminds me of the past. Yes, her organizing of things did make you disappointed and tired but when a person have so many things to remember, she may forget one or two even it's very important. And I said before, I don't know whether she is faking or what, just that from what I see, she's maybe the second me which I don't know she endure the stress since when.

As I typed those in facebook without saying my story because I don't think you really need to know unless you are interested. But, you reject and before you say no, you really say something that hurt me. Not that I cried or what, just that I feel disappointed to you also.

"Please grow up, you don't know about the society and please don't send me this kind of message."

What do you know about me? What rights do you have to say that I didn't grow up? Yes, perhaps during working time, you already know my outer side, childish, timid, selfish or whatsoever. But do you know about my past? Do you know what i feel when I am at that era? Do you even understand why I bother to type those even I am angry about Katherine myself. What benefits do I gain by siding her? What benefits do I gain by tearing ties with you? I make that into a neutral discussion but you return me a very bad negative impression. Even when I told my past, you don't even bother to reply. So, what does it mean, am I still a "not growing child" and "don't know anything about society" kid? Please, just how many years are you older than me?

Okay, since you say that I am not growing up, I shall prove it to you alone only. You want to play ignorant, I will follow the act. If there is any chance I see you at somewhere, I shall pretend I don't know about you unless you give me an apology of saying that. Even I type those, you still think I don't know about society then just us be like the way we are then. Forget about going restaurant to eat or shop like friends, I shall forget everything about us. And if that's what you want, I shall follow since we just know for about 3 months only.

Ahma house (week 3 of term 1 of sem 2 of year 2 of school)

2/11/2009 - 6/11/2009

Monday

Cmsk as usual, hide to some places when teacher say work break time but this time round, i didn't cry. I went to the staircase and sit down there, thinking a lot of stupid shit. I went back a while later. Good that nobody went to that place, i don't want anyone to see it. But there is something good, videos time. Should be "Talk of the week". Our group should present double articles, but i present a video. A funny video about one person interview with some other people. Even hooiling is laughing, means i got a good video. Some kind of life achievement...i told myself, its a good day

Went to 'business' for lunch with xiaocui, a lot of people, there's no place to sit. We "ta bao" and eat outside the bench there. Steph calling for burgers but we finished our food already. The food that i ordered is oily here and there which make me uncomfortable--fried chicken + black pepper sauce + fried egg + rice..

ECSD class. Doing lab08, about catalog and shopping cart. I seriously don't know how to do. Though the lab sheet is kind of step by step guide but i still blur.. Albert in PBL mode..hiaz.
Feel so tired today...Proposal need a lot of changes..hiaz

Tuesday

Bus journey, i met Eling but weijin isn't there. Maybe i am quite early.

No swen lecture, need to redo those ppt. Then today is a good time cos tml representation. ECSD still in lab 8 but is part b, some still on a. Don't think have the time to finish all lesson practicals. Lunch, go with Dina, Kah Yong, Siao Wei, Steph, Weijin, xiaocui and me. We all want to eat mac but the electricity is down so we go to "jurong cafe @ Tampines" coffee shop for lunch. I eat char siew rice, xiaocui eat mixed vege rice while dina they all order western food. Waited for so long, then siaowei and weijin's one have come up. They like so sian. Mine gonna finish already then their food comes in. According to what siaowei say, weijin eat very fast.lol

(oh btw, siyun, upon reading here, tell u my feelings la. Xiao cui is the first time in this week keep going with dina they all for lunch. Now that, the classmate ship with siaowei and weijin is keeping up. Steph is a girl. dina and kah yong is couple. Jasmine, a lot of things didn't update you cos u always talk to me when i going to offline. So this week, u miss a lot of my things..slowly read ah!)

Then we went to school to continue our projects. But there's any lab at block 3 so xiaocui go to the lab where students do their major project lol. No teacher is there so we go in but dina they all don't want and went to the library. We continue the swen ppt which needs to present tomorrow. We want to ask chong kai to come but he's already in bus. Haiz, xiaocui ideas was a lot sia. But a lot of them i don't like cos i am the one who's doing loh! She just sit there and give idea. On that moment, i really want to tell her "you got so many idea, u do lah!" Make me change here and there and again, i still have to type her presentation script.

(Haiz, complain so much also no use. My responsibilty of having a useless character. So i tolerate but i won't in my blogging so pardon me ah..ahah)

Finally finish the ppt, then we sent to everyone. Even the sending, she also got a lot of opinions. wat the hell sia. I hate it when she keep nagging. Like 45 old auntie.worst than my mum.

Go home..still tired..hiaz.non-stopping stress...

Wednesday
Swen presentation, cannot be late but it starts at 11am so i still can sleep more but there's practice need to be done so i wake myself up and reach school at about 9.30. Very late cos i need to change the ppt.

10.14am, xiaocui and me waiting for the 3 of them to reach. Keok lan still didn't come while zi sheng and chong kai come already.. They wear similar clothes sia. Everyone was in their formal except me so i quickly go and change mine but my hair still untied. We discussing and changing the contents, we plan to have a total practice but still didn't do so. Time's almost up and i went to tie my hair while others go first.

keok lan message us that she's not coming..lol. 0 marks for presentation. What's important? Hopefully nothing's bad. Then it jaslyn that group start first. I didn't hear what they say, i only observing mr.m eye positioning is at jaslyn..lol
(oh, jaslyn is mr.m's ex-girlfriend but i suppose this won't just end like that.)
Then melvin group, i still observing whether his eye position will point to jaslyn or perform better than his usual cos he wants to prove to jaslyn that he's good in presentation.
(Unfortunately, i don't see any differences,lol)

Then my group..(upon here, i feel very suai sia, the timing, i chasing melvin, melvin chasing jaslyn..wth.? Actually we in group 5 but keok lan got lesson so she cannot be at the last group so we change with dina they all. In the end, she didn't come..wtf?)

Hmm..i say i don't want to be the person who click the slides but still me in the end. As usual, i click faster than the person. Xiao cui, go add something that i don't like then i didn't rmb that something and skip to something else. Somemore is chongkai's one lo. Wth! That time wei chiuan's cmsk, i also lyk that harm me..why i always harm those handsome guys sia?

No wonder i never got a chance to group with melvin.

Then eling that group, xiaocui says she feel like sleeping when yong liang is talking. Lol, same. Then dina's group but this time round weijin's presentation improve sia. Kah yong still the same tone..lol..funny sia.old people are lyk that de la.talk so slow..haha (luckily, he don't know this blog..whahahahah)

Lunch time: Macdonald
Xiaocui again go with dina they all, i change my clothe and we went down to macdonald. Cos there are 7 of us so we collect those stickers and get the game sheet. As usual, i eat mac spicy and as usual, weijin sit opposite me again. Sia la.

Macdonald defintely need chili sauce and because of that, we kana those chili on clothes. Mine not on clothe but on my hand. Hiaz, shirley and kai li not available and xiaocui is a bit fed up. To me,its nothing cos i see lots already. To me, i don't need everyone to be here, just that i want to finish the work as soon as possible. So, if i do the one man show, as long as i can finish.that's ok.

No lab available so steph lent us her laptop, xiaocui want to give albert to see but he's not free and needed now. And he don't want to come down to library. Xiaocui say bring the laptop to him but its steph's one lol. Wth, how can she be so thick face man?! If me, i not able to do that and i will not do that. Cos i also worry if other people take my laptop and disappear for few hours. Xiaocui say if spoil, just compensate one to steph.

Rich people are just this kind of attitude. Hate it man.

Then we went to albert office and ask for his feedback. I try to remember and we bring back the laptop after 1 hour. We rushed back and they about to leave. So we leave together. Luckily, the lappy is good and fine, if not..Xiaocui taking cab and steph going opposite. Thinking of going home with weijin, first time with a guy. I really don't have the courage to say i am not going opposite. After xiaocui going very far then i say it out. Steph was stunned and say nobody acompany her. I feel so guilty sia..how am i going to face Steph in the future?

Siao wei, weijin and me at the bus stop, i was thinking..what is the situation when weijin and me go up to the bus. Am i going to sit beside him or sit somewhere else? Then i told myself to go up first and let him decide. In the end, he came in front of me and i just sit beside him. Leaving a bit of distance. I don't want the situation to be so awkard and cold so i keep throwing lots of rubbish, in the meantime, got talk about homework and project but nothing else.

We finally reached and weijin want to cross the road..without traffic lights. I told him we had a compeitition and i walk towards the traffic light. After he safely reached opposite then i walked faster. But i didn't see him when i reached the opposite. I went to look for his block but i didn't see him. Next block wat or i heard the wrong thing?

Then i went back. Since he's just one level and next block, i wonder if he will just come and look me up then i picked carefully clothes. But nothing happen..lol i think too much. We are just classmates..

(So that guy who went home tgt with me is call weijin, look ok lah. better than kok keong..haha Height, ok lah, higher than me, size, ok lah. Just that his character very childish, more childish than me lol.)

(Break record sia, my first time go home with a guy. some kind of life achievement woohoo!)

Thursday

I didn't see weijin or eling so i went to school alone. I reached but weijin ask me why i walked so fast. I told him i didn't see him. As usual, he's making irritating noise again. Then i make one sentence that make me regret the whole day!

大白天，你能不能正经一点？

Walao, xiaocui misunderstand it lo. What i mean, be serious, lesson going to start. Now not happy hour, don't make those stupid noise. Then in her view become, broad daylight, lets be serious but at night, you can do whatever you want..
Wtfer. Then she keep talking/mentioning that sentence as if we got something loh!
The worst is that weijin is don't care and he still make that noise. Though its joke but i cannot take it sia. Cos he's not single, i don't know whether his stead is still with him or what, i just feel that we are friends. Can don't joke or not? And we just go home together and make that stupid sentence by mistake!

btw, shld be: 大白天，你能不能正常一点？

2pm go albert remedia, so went to eat simple food. Business?ITAS? i forget already. But not with steph they all. That sentence haven finish yet.

We went to the remedia, we are the first then dina they all come. I thought don't have already but later a while...Everyone come and we help each other in the coding. Wei chiuan also come, for chatting lol..Is this really a remedia? hiaz

Then the thing came, they are talking about it again! Then mingde heard it then he ask what happen, xiaocui actually go to him and say. I don't know what the fuck she talking but mingde ask me, "you and weijin...?" I imediately say no..!

That stupid xiaocui, i want to slap la! Joke until this stage. She observe but she don't update herself first. Weijin break with his gf but he got another 1! Xiaocui still told me about other people she observe. but some can ask, some cannot. I asked the ones that can ask and she's wrong, i checked weijin facebook and she's wrong again!. She never see through the end.

now that, i confirm, i don't know whether weijin and me still can continue to be friends or even better. I really don't know...

(During the bus journey of going home, i bet with heaven using songs to know what will happen to the person and me, here's the result:
半情歌 - wei jin ( now that i know why it is ban qing ge..)
亿万克拉的幸福 - wei chiuan( but wth is this? i not close still got chance meh?)
情非得已 + 面包的滋味 last rhythm - melvin ( know it all along, impossible, whether the past, now or in the future))

Friday

Weijin and me met at the bus-stop but we didn't talk cos i don't think we can be friends. Especially my mind says cannot. We sit at different place in the end.. I reached school and i walked veri fast cos i am starting to avoid him. LOL. I told xiaocui weijin got gf already but she's like, oh, ok. Never even feeling sorry about those things she say. She don't think. Now there is one more reason that we cannot be good friends cos she never know what i mean, how i feel and how sensitive i am. No sorry for what she done. Everytime lyk tht.

ECSD finally start on lab 10 and 11 but lab 9 have to do on next week. Next lesson swen, new assignment and as usual, i don't know what to do. Keok lan still not here, she's not feeling well and i request her to send us her past sem work. ( she's senior and failed swen so she retaking and we got to do our assignment fast because she give us her work as reference..actually is copy...but not all)

After the lesson, we ecsd people went to a lab to finish our proposal. Send and submited, we can finally go home. (btw, we met haz and her friend but i didn't talk to her cos i nvr notice her. i just know i need to finish the work. Then Ivor came..with his gf. I said good people good deserve then xiaocui say something stupid again!. "His girlfriend very pretty, better than.." ( cos jaslyn stead with ivor before and break and then go with melvin and break. speaking of pretty, i got no comment cos i look like ..wth i got the rights to comment other girls?)

Then shirley and kaili was like, "better than who..?" then they finally came up with an idea who the person is but they didn't say out. We all know who is that..(er..mr.m, if u ever see this post, please don't blame it on me, go after xiaocui cos she is the one who talking about it. I can confirm, she is bossy until she don't know she had said a lot of stupid things. Maybe i also very stupid cos i keep disturbing u online.sry la. but wun already, as long as you update me yourself and not through others.)

Night, i went home and mum suddenly told me to go back cos got people want to rent our room and they are coming soon. Everything was packed except my bag. We went out at 8pm, mum say take taxi but we walked here and there just to find a empty cab. I feel so tired sia but finally we got in one and went home safely.

Then i ate a lot that night..

Ahma house journey ended again. Perhaps 11 december, we may meet again. Bye!

AHMA HOUSE JOURNEY REOPEN!!!

Although reopen is just 5 days but there is 3 days to worth talking about. So its good!

Hmm..the 2 weeks i had from school reopen is tougher than last few months, few feelings to taste about and not just single love.

There was awkard, worries, hua chi also. Quarrels with "friends" then facing things, people that i don't wish to. These are part of growing up but i rather i was still that small girl, better in secondary school. Not too tough, not too childish and some sweetness. Those times are the best, to many people, they wanted childhood happiness. Nope, not to me, i need some challenges cos that's life and not too much, not too intense. Not too extreme also!

I can pass this. moreover, i am not the one who suffering sia. The one who really suffer is mr.m. Haiz, there was another complicated matters.I want him to be happy but i can't do anything and i hope there was another way. I know that only that way will make me happy but that will make me unhappy. Haiz. In other words, when he suffer, i will be happy. When he's in paradise, i will be the one kana tortured in hell. Single-love mah, bo bian.